Monday, July 21, 2008

A Better You and Your Relationships!

A Better You Start With Your Relationships!

Association is very vital in the process of Becoming the Best...
Your association with people, place and events will make a great impact in your life...
Your association can increase your value or diminishes it...
The Quality of your relationship determines the quality of your future!

You do not need everyone to succeed neither everyone to wreck your life either...
Association With One Right Person or A Wrong Person will determine that!
One right person can accelerate your success beyond your imagination!
Same way one wrong person can create hell in your life forever as well.
So, you must identify and disconnect from the wrong people.. and embrace the right person to your life.

When the right person enter your life... right things started to happen...

As you start the process of becoming your best...
It is time for a serious evaluation...
Who you want to take with you in this journey....
Who you want to eliminate from this journey...
Who is dragging you back.....
Who is pushing you to your goal further....
Why?  Because this is your life... this happens only one time....So you must protect it... nurture it... celebrate it! Celebrate the very life God gave you!!!

Every relationship in your life is like a mathematical equations.... They will
-ADD to You (+)
-SUBTRACT from you (-)
-DIVIDE YOU (/)
- MULTIPLY YOU (X)

In another words... They will Deposit into your life or Withdraw from you!!!
Know that every interaction with another is just like a Bank Transaction....
Withdrawal or  Depositing...
What are you allowing others to withdraw from you? Good Or Bad? Faith or Doubt? Encouragement or Disappointment?
Ask Yourself... What Am I Filled With? You can only give what you contain...!

On the other side What are you allowing others to deposit in you?
If you are surrounded with Good and Quality Friends, they will deposit quality in you.. good character in you... Your life will be transformed into something great and wonderful.

You must always filter what enters in you....
Every Conversation, Every Sight, Every Feeling... is very important!
One wrong movement can completely sabotage your life for ever!

Prison is full of people who were very good and refused to cut the tie with wrong people....
Know who weakens your character
Discern who sow doubts in your mind
Comprehend the trap others are making for you...
Make A Decision Today To Cut The Ties.... if needed, even RUN AWAY from them!
If you stay around... They May Conquer you... You became just a memory .... A Fallen One...

Know that what you fail to conquer will eventually conquer you!

Write down the Names of your TRUE friends in your journal!
Write notes to them... call them... tell them how much you appreciate them.
Remember The Right Person Is Holding The Key To Your Success!
Discerning and Celebrating such person will take you to Uncommon Success...no doubt!!!

Remember, A Better You Start Your Relationships!

[Hope this little note gives you encouragement and insight for your success. if so, please post your comment and send this to your friends. If you have a blog, include me in your blog as well. Thank You... Your Success Matters...!!!]

You Are Responsible For Your Success!!

A Better You Start With You!
The Blame game is over...
You are responsible for your success..
You can be your Best Friend or Worst Enemy... Choose one today!

No one care about you like you do...it is the reality!
You must take care of your body, soul and spirit...
You can not wait for someone to give a high five and pat on your shoulder...
No one stop to sing high praises or "How great thou art" 

If you want to become better than yesterday... you better get up from your mess...
Stop whining and crying... Stop blaming others...
Learn from your mistakes... make a covenant with yourself that you will not repeat those mistakes again... Your Decision to change your mess into a powerful message start now!

You must learn to talk to yourself...
Find a mirror and start the conversation...
No one but only you know how to talk to you... how to inspire you... motivate you..
You better decide what you want to talk to you...if not others will...!!

You must develop the vocabulary of  an achiever...
Refuse the language and the vocabulary of your past and present....
Embrace the vocabulary of the place you are going...vocabulary of a Better You... The Uncommon Achiever!!
So stop saying the words of a victim and start talking like a victorious.

Get some 3X5 cards...write down the phrases and sentences that motivates you!
Read them in front of a mirror... repeat them several times until you start believe them...
The Result will be phenomenal.. you will notice the transformation taking place in your being
You will never be the same!!!

You Are Responsible for your Success....
Stop being your Worst Enemy....Start being your great friend
Know today " A Better You Start With You"!!!

[ I would love to hear how this little not impacted your life. would you please take a moment and comment? Also, invite your friends to read this note as well. Thank you.]